Jimmy and I returned home yesterday, the 23rd, from Louisiana; we were there ten days. My sister, Nannie's, husband (William Scott Underwood, aka "Bubba") passed away from lymphoma on February 9th. He didn't quite make it to his 80th birthday in April, but we like to think he lived a good, long life. His memorial service took place on Saturday, the 17th and, boy howdy, a lot of people attended. A lot.
Their friends from Denmark, Heidi Holm and Soren Nielsen, flew all the way across the pond just for Bubba's service, a most kind and touching thing to do. Pictured above, L-R: Heidi, Jimmy, Soren, and Nannie.
Along with flower arrangements and plants, Nannie put together a slide show of their lives, a loop that everyone in the funeral home could watch during the service. They were married 47 years. The memorial service was emotional, but lovely.
After the service, half the crowd returned to Nannie's home for refreshments, most provided by the Live Oak Community Church. I carried my camera around all day, yet took very few pics and only these few were worthy of posting.
Of course, you see the mob gathered in the kitchen. Isn't that the way people behave? Stand around in the kitchen, though most of the food had been placed in the dining room. Underwoods have lived in this area for generations, so plenty of Bubba's relatives were in attendance, as well as many dear friends.
Their grandson, Joe, and his wife, Catherine, and their two youngsters were here. Joe flew here before his grandpa passed, spending quality time with him and helping Nannie immensely. Above is great-granddaughter, Amelia, a "firecracker" in Joe's words. All the kids were having fun while the adults visited. That's what kids do. Blake's the little guy with the bucket on his head and watching him walk around like that was a riot.
Naturally, some lighthearted nonsense is in order. 😊
When it's over,
it's definitely time to put your feet up!
The flowers were gorgeous. This arrangement was from our sister-in-law, Anne, who lost her husband of over 50 years last month. Been a helluva year so far.
Son, Matt, flew in from Sacramento to be with his aunt. It was only right and fitting that he and I be with her and honor Bubba, since Matt and I lived next door to them for ten years. I moved from SoCal to Louisiana in 1989, when Matt was nine, so we'd be near family as we had none in SoCal.
Jimmy and I were blamed for ushering in a cold front the day after we arrived, and it truly was cold! The burial of Bubba's urn was postponed till Monday the 19th because it was too chilly outside. Thank goodness the sun was shining this day. Bubba's only sibling, Jim, helped inter his brother. Nannie, Jim and Matt above.
Jim, Jimmy, and Matt above.
We are not a gloomy lot. Nannie will mourn her Bubba forever, but life goes on for the living. We still eat, laugh, and joke. For dinner one night, after the donated food was gone or we were tired of eating it, we four went to Don's Seafood for a blow-out seafood dinner, and let me tell you, the food was delicious. Matt and Nannie, above.
Matt left the next day, unfortunately sick, flu-like but not COVID, and he became sicker when he got home. Soren and Heidi left the day after the memorial service, both ill with a nasty tummy bug. No fun having to travel when you're feeling bad. Nevertheless, thanks to them for being there for Nannie.
Yummy crab claws was our appetizer at Don's. Have you ever tried fried alligator? How about blackened alligator? Maybe boudin balls? No? Me, neither.
Now begins a new chapter in Nannie's life as she joins the ranks of widowhood. Indeed, for Jimmy and me, too, since we're used to being a foursome whenever we'd go someplace. My sister will be all right. She has relatives all over the country to visit if she's of a mind, friends, too. And she knows she's always welcome at our house, anytime.